Tuesday, 22 December 2015

Improving the new you for 2016

Improving the new you for 2016
New Years Resolutions by Merete Mei-Jin Noer

Study harder.  Get fitter.  Work more.
How are your goals getting along this year? How long is your list? How many things did you add to it this year around?

Mine used to be endless. It always has the same ring to it though, the same goals. What is the point if you always want to achieve the same things, especially when they really don’t matter? What do I achieve by putting more hours into work, by getting an inch slimmer, and by studying harder for next year?

There really is no point of running on the treadmill for another extra 30 minutes the day before New Years Eve to jumpstart your new list. Goals should be set but I have learned that how you feel in the moment, right here and right now matters more then anything else. The longer the list is for your new years resolutions, the harder you will strive towards reaching it – how about working on these things daily and rather then trying to manifest it through your resolution list?

Reminiscing your moments from 2015
Rather then doing a new years resolution list this year, I decided that a thank you list would be another option -

Remember the highlights of the past year. Who made you smile? Who made you fall in love? Who picked up your bag of groceries when you needed it? Who called you when you were down? Who made dinner for you when you were hungry?

It is cheesy to say or write, some of you might think right now. But cherishing the small, everyday moments that you had in the past is what I look forward to in the future. The small, everyday small moments you share with the people you love. The small, everyday surroundings that make you smile.
  
I have too many people to thank and one too many moments I would want to cherish. The many new people who made me smile, the old friends I have who always stayed by my side through everything, the neighbours who gave me plenty of joy. Mum who always cooks amazing food, dad who joys me with his humour, my sister who always shares a laugh with me. My dog for dragging me outdoors, my girlfriends for being silly with me. My GBF who always has amazing advice. My skating friends who always push me to be better. To my choir who gave me something to look forward to every Wednesday. To my GF in Singapore who spent all her spare time with me being touristy. To my mentors all over the world who always give me advice whenever I need it. To the Chief Editor of Scandasia who published my first article, ever. To the staff in Atlantis for letting me work on their project. To all my old and new clients who gave me work this year. To my silly new DJ managers for making me laugh.

To Nigel, my friend and manager: I did my best, but I guess my best was not enough.

I wish you all a merry Christmas and a happy new year.

Till we meet again,

Xoxo Merete


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